How It Works

How it Works

Have you ever been in a situation where you knew what you wanted to say, but you didn’t know how to say it? Have you had to prepare a speech for a very important or special event? Yet, you did not know how to say it? Do you sometimes wish you had your own speech writer, or someone who could give you ideas on what to place in your speech?

Well, here at Say It At Your Wedding, we can provide you with confidence, support and some major handholding by providing our patrons with original prose and poetry written by professional, compassionate and respected writers who will make every occasion more meaningful, special and deeply memorable. Or, our writers can collaborate on your own material to have your thoughts, ideas and sentiments written in an eloquent and meaningful way.

Not only do we offer original prose and poetry, but we have tried to create a site that will be helpful to future brides, grooms, and their families and friends by provide wedding tips, wedding stories, and wedding advice columns.

Say It At Your Wedding would like to answer some of the questions you may have about our services. Please read the questions and answers below. If there are questions you have that we have not answered, then just write to “Adele” of our “Ask Adele”, and she will answer them for you.

Why have a professional help you with your vows, father-of-the-bride speech, best man speech or any other wedding speech?
You want the words at your wedding to flow, be memorable, and possibly have your vows or the father of the bride’s speech bring a tear to the eyes of your guests.

“I take you to be my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, from this day forward until death do us part.”
These are nice words, but I am sure you have heard them a thousand times. Will you and your future spouse exchange vows that have been used for so many years at so many weddings?  Have you even thought about your vows?

A wedding is truly a special event and your vows can create a pleasurable experience that you and your loved ones will never forget. For example, the following poem, To Anna, contains vows written by Say It At Your Wedding's poet, Jamie O'Roarke, for a groom to say to his future bride. Words such as these convey lovely sentiments. They are fresh, original, unheard before your Wedding Day and are unforgettable.

I’ve never felt part of this world
There was no town or road that
beckoned me to stay.
Whenever I saw a husband and wife
interact, I knew that wasn’t me.
I never smiled when lovers kissed.
Casablanca was just another film
Male/female relationships were tedious
I was happiest when alone.
I told myself my life was good
I needed no one by my side
No woman touched my heart
Never thought love was such a deal.
But then I met you Anna
In an instant, my life changed.
So on this day and with this ring,
I promise you my love, my world is you.

What are the Payment/Fees for Patron services?
In order to purchase original works, a member must obtain downloads. Purchasing a membership provides you with points that will enable you to download our original works. When a patron buys a 6 month membership, the patron gets 6 downloads, or for a year membership gets 13 downloads.

The cost for a Membership is as follows:

  • 2 Month Membership - $19.95 -   3 downloads
  • 4 Month Membership - $34.95 -   7 downloads
  • 6 Month Membership - $45.95 - 13 downloads

In addition to original works, Say It At Your Wedding offers the personalization of your sentiments and places you with a writer who will create a never-before-heard, fresh vow or speech customized just for you.

Cost for a personalized poem or prose:

  • Starting at $60 per piece with membership
  • Starting at $50 per piece with membership if you allow your piece to be posted and used by Say It At Your Wedding for future use by other patrons.
  • Starting at $75 per piece without membership
  • Starting at $65 per piece without membership if you allow your piece to be posted and used by Say It At Your Wedding for future use by other patrons.

Will Say It At Your Wedding expand its services for other events?  Yes, Say It At Your Wedding plans to provide original prose and poetry for these special events:

  • Say It At Your Anniversary
  • Say It At Your Engagement Party
  • Say It To Your Lover
  • Say It In Memoriam
  • Speech Writing for Any of Your Events

 Say It At Your Wedding will also provide a comedy series:

  • Say It To Your Ex
  • Say It to Your Boss
  • Say it At Your Last Day On The Job

Also coming soon to Say It At Your Wedding:

Music At Your Wedding or special event which will offer original songs to patrons or Music to go with a patron’s original words.

Whether it is a poem, a speech, a story or a vow, Say It At Your Wedding is here to show you how! When you can’t find the words, let Say It At Your Wedding be your voice. We welcome the opportunity to work with you and to make your special event a memorable and treasured occasion!

Our wonderful Staff at Say It At Your Wedding is here to help you with your upcoming Wedding.